The Outstanding Ohioans show, Episode 56-Interview with Heather Shumaker, author of “It’s OK To Go Up The Slide”

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This show brings the audience great things Ohioans are doing to make their communities, the state, the region, and the world a better place as entrepreneurs, leaders, historical and popular culture figures.

For episode 56, I had the pleasure of speaking with Heather Shumaker, author of It’s OK to Go UP the Slide… Renegade Rules for Raising Confident and Creative Kids It’s OK NOT to Share… and Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids

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The two books that Heather Shumaker has written provide great insights and ideas on how to raise children to be responsible, creative human beings with the ability to communicate.  Many of her thoughts counter the current culture of overprotective parents & practices within the school system.

Here were the topics we discussed in our conversation:

  • growing up in Columbus, Ohio
  • the background of her mother and father, who both recently retired as educators
  • attending the School for Young Children, founded in 1969 in Columbus
  • why she structured specific tools & ideas in her books that parents could use
  • her two central parenting themes
  • street smarts and stranger danger
  • sharing
  • calendars & clocks
  • homework
  • recess
  • reading
  • conflict resolution
  • reading for pleasure vs. forced reading
  • technology temptation
  • kid evaluation/resolution vs. adult intervention
  • fairness & justice
  • establishing boundaries

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The Outstanding Ohioans show, Episode 55-Interview with Seth Cramer, Co-Owner of Phoenix Bat Company

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This show brings the audience great things Ohioans are doing to make their communities, the state, the region, and the world a better place as entrepreneurs, leaders, historical and popular culture figures.

For episode 55, I had the pleasure of speaking with Seth Cramer, Co-Owner/General Manager of Phoenix Bats Company in Plain City, Ohio.  Phoenix Bats specializes in manufacturing WOOD baseball bats for baseball and softball players of all ages and abilities.

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Baseball has a following from what are commonly called “purists”.  These purists love the tradition of baseball, the history of baseball, and the intricacies of baseball.  The resurgence in the use of wood bats at all levels is something the purists enjoy seeing.

Seth joined the Phoenix Bat team in 2007 representing a venture capital firm in Columbus, Ohio.  Here were some highlights of our conversation:

  • his journey from Connecticut to Ohio
  • his personal and business influences
  • how Seth got involved with Phoenix Bats
  • what role does venture capitalists play in business
  • the difference between venture capital and angel investors
  • the history of Phoenix Bats Company
  • the differentiation that makes Phoenix Bats special
  • the importance of customer service
  • how Phoenix Bats gets involved with tournaments to promote their product
  • how wood bats have come back into vogue at all levels, the rule changes to metal bats, the expected future trends, and the benefits to the player that uses wood
  • why Division I college baseball has been resistant to using wood bats
  • how Phoenix Bats entered a market dominated by Louisville Slugger, what has happened to Louisville Slugger, and new growth opportunities for Phoenix Bats
  • how different types of wood serve different styles of hitters
  • selection process for wood supplier
  • Adam Eaton is a prominent major leaguer using Phoenix Bats
  • in-roads being made in foreign markets
  • economic impact in the local community and using local suppliers
  • Seth’s best business advice-sell to the right person, at the right time, at the right amount

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The Outstanding Ohioans show, Episode 54-Don’t Bureaucrat This One, Conversation with guest host Angus Macleod

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Yes indeed, I am now using the word bureaucrat as a verb.  In this conversation with Angus Macleod, we talked about several topics.  These topics included:

  • Leadership philosophies
  • Delegation
  • what makes working in sports, recreation, and wellness so compelling and fulfilling
  • In customer service, strive not to have staff bureaucrat customer requests as much as possible.
  • Ownership
  • Connection
  • Apathy

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The “If I Got Hit By A Bus” Legacy Series, Video 13-Embrace the Kick in the Gut

In this video, I talk about recognizing and embracing life’s daily “Kick in the Gut”.  Embrace this kick as a sign from God that he wants more from you to live a fulfilled life.

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Two Tools to Control Emotional Reactions

 

Photo on 9-5-16 at 6.37 PM.jpg“Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.” -John Wooden

We have heard many sayings talking about having a good reaction to circumstances that occur each day.  What we can control, what we cannot control, our mindset, our attitude, etc.

In order to have a positive reaction to difficult situations, we need to have tools to keep our triggers in check so we can have positive outcomes.

In the recent Urban Meyer book Above The Line, Tim Kight uses a formula called E+R=O.
Event + Response=Outcome.  The premise is that our response to an event will drive the odds of success or failure in one direction or the other.  Mr. Kight provides six ways to improve your ability to respond. These six ways are:

  1. Press Pause-take a breath, step back, and ask “what does this situation require of me?”
  2. Get Your Mind Right-train your mind to be tough and look for solutions
  3. Step Up-taking action after Pressing Pause and focusing your mindset
  4. Adjust & Adapt-evaluate your actions & mindset and change it to match the circumstances
  5. Make a Difference-your Response is an E for others, strive to have great responses that make a positive impact
  6. Build Your Skill-grow your talent and skill set by pushing yourself past your comfort level

While this is a great system to manage your responses, we need to quickly shift our frame of mind.  Pressing pause is a great way to do this, but what about about an event happening in the flow of your situation.

In his great book “Toughness:  Developing True Strength On and Off the Court” by Jay Bilas, Mr. Bilas talks about the concept of “Next Play” that was taught by Mike Krzyzewski.  It’s a quick “mindset reset” that clears out the recent event, great or not-so great, to allow you to focus on the next thing you need to do.

I suspect you have had a bad moment that occurred, and because you were dwelling on it, you missed the next opportunity to be successful.  Conversely, have you had a great moment that you kept thinking about, and then you made a mistake that you would normally not have made.

In leadership, what will make you successful is NOT how you handle events when they are going well.  What will you make you grow as a leader is getting better and better at handling negative events.  The problem-solvers are the go-to people that get opportunities to be successful.

I challenge you to learn these six steps and to say “Next Play” so you have great R’s.

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